“Don’t Be Afraid To Ask”
By Zach Wood
James 1:5 NLT
If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will
give it to you. He will not rebuke you
for asking.
I don’t know about you, but I have always been a person who
fears asking questions in a group of people.
I don’t have a problem asking a question to someone one-on-one, but if
you put me in a classroom or any other environment where there are many people,
I get nervous to ask the most simple question.
I remember in college that I raised my hand a few times to ask questions
and before the professor called on me, my heart started racing, my body shook a
little, I got a little sweaty, etc. I
just always feared asking questions in public.
Through the years, I still feel the same way when I am in a
group of people. There is just something
intimidating to me when I am around a lot of people and I think of even asking
a question to the person in charge. I
often think everyone else is going to have a better and more reasonable
question than I will. It isn’t a good
way to look at it, but it is just what goes through my mind.
Sometimes, we approach God the same way with the questions
we have. Even though we have direct
access to God, we often hesitate to ask Him for wisdom or for anything because
we are afraid of how He will respond to us or we feel we do not want to bog him
down with petty questions when He has so much other things to deal with.
We need to get this mindset out of ourselves and know that
God welcomes us, no matter what we ask of Him or come to Him about. If we want wisdom, He wants us to ask
Him. He definitely does not want us
going after the wisdom of the world. He
wants us to come to Him with our requests and He loves to communicate with
us. We should never be afraid to
approach Him and lay our requests at His feet.
He is never too busy for our questions or too busy to give us
wisdom.
I often tell my kids that I do not want them to be afraid to
ask me questions. Sometimes, they are
afraid of the question they ask and nervous what my reaction and answer will
be. I admit, sometimes I do not react
the best to their question, but I try hard to be sensitive and open minded
about what they ask. I want them to feel
comfortable coming to me to ask me anything.
They might not always like the answer, but I try to understand what they
want or need and talk to them about it.
We should never be afraid to approach God with our requests
and our desire for wisdom. Our God is a
very generous God Who loves us and will give us what we need.